Saturday, February 7, 2009

Checking In!

So.......since I work in a CPA's office and tax season is now in fill swing, I'm working 6 days a week and 10 hour days.......which means I'm SOOOOOOOOOOO behind in blogging and even further behind in reading and commenting on my favorite blogs :(

On the upside, my employers are generous enough to have me on an hourly rate so I get paid overtime for the extra hours I'm working and that makes it easier to take the dark circles under my eyes from the lack of sleep. AND, after tax season, they close the office for a week so we can all rest and recuperate from the craziness.

As far as my personal life goes, I've come to terms with some things about my personality as it relates to what I want from a relationship........and it's still the same......nothing traditional for me. It truly would make me miserable. The confusion I feel always comes from my trying to be more "traditional" and "socially correct"......have a relationships like 99% of my family and friends. It just isn't my thing, but at least I know, for my peace of mind, I'm taking stock and checking periodically to make sure I'm still on the right track for ME.

To those of you who lovingly question me about whether or not I'm making the best choices with my relationships, I thank you! I do understand where you're coming from and it makes me feel so loved that you care about my well-being. I know it's frustrating because what I want and need from my relationships is so different, believe me......it was frustrating for me to try and be in a traditional relationship. But....as the Starlight Manifesto goes: It is what it is!

Hopefully I'll be able to blog a bit more in the coming week.....I do have stuff I'd like to write. Finding the time to write them is the challenge.

5 comments:

Life with Kaishon said...

I didn't know you were working in a CPA's office. My brother is an accountant and he is CRAZY busy around tax time. I will be praying for you!

Jessica said...

Ahh... you are so right.. it is what it is!!!

Thanks for swinging by Saturday. It was good to see ya for a bit. The kids' enjoyed it as well:)

stargurrl13 said...

Sitting out on the porch makes me soooooooo ready for summer!!! I enjoyed seeing you all, too!

Life with Kaishon said...

I am praying for you on this busy tax day : ). You rock!

Life with Kaishon said...

Happy Valentines Day friend! Any spectacular Valentines plans tonight? XO